Nikki Porter

Dates

June 29, 1954 - June 9, 2018

Obituary

On June 9th, 2018, the life of the kind and beautiful soul of Nikki Porter ended at age 63. She passed away at the Dougherty Hospice House in Sioux Falls, SD after a brief but life changing diagnosis of Ovarian Cancer.

She was at peace knowing she was ready to meet her God and be set free from pain. She left behind a legacy that will never be forgotten and her death will not be in vain. Nikki was an angel among us and now she is an angel watching over us.

She was born June 29th, 1954 in Sioux Falls, SD to Dwane and Margie (Wax) Dirkson. Nikki was a caregiver and always knew she wanted to be a nurse. She began volunteering as a Candy Striper at Sioux Valley Hospital as a young teen. She graduated from Sioux Falls Washington High School in 1972 and went on to attend the University of South Dakota’s Nursing program. She moved to Mitchell in 1975 and began working as a nurse at Methodist Hospital. Jim and Nikki were married in February 1977 at Zion Lutheran Church.

Over the years she continued her education by receiving her Bachelors of Nursing degree from South Dakota State University in 1987 and became a Certified Nurse Practitioner in Women’s Health in 1995. She worked as the Director of Mitchell Women’s Health Center and then as a Certified Nurse Practitioner at Dakota Women’s Clinic until 2009. In 2010 she joined the family business at Porter Distributing. During the 90’s she and Jim were also Owners/Operators of JCW Clothing Company in Mitchell and Sioux Falls.

It was important for her to give back to the community she raised her family in. Over the years she was a board member of or volunteer for many organizations including St. Mary’s Episcopal Church, Mitchell YWCA, Abbott House, Mitchell Safe House, Mitchell Main Street and Beyond, Beta Sigma Phi, Mitchell Exchange Club, South Dakota State Nursing Board and more.

One of her biggest joys in life was being a mom and grandma. Her kids and grandkids meant the world to her. She loved to plan holidays, family dinners, projects and crafts with the grandkids, and vacations to make sure we all made time to make memories together. There was a never a moment we doubted how lucky we were to have her as our family rock.

Grateful for sharing in her life are her husband, Jim. Her mother, Margie Dirkson. Daughters, Christina Luna (Mark) and Kirbie (Eric Wilson) and son, Drew (Trena). Her brother, Guy (Kathy) and sister, Gaylene Guimond (Joe). Her eight grandchildren Aislinn, Ryann, Stori, Cael, Cruz, Denton, Declynn & Brooks. She was preceded in death by her father Dwane Dirkson.

We know Nikki touched so many in the Mitchell community. The family has planned a private prayer service. To celebrate her life, we invite you to share your memories and laughter with Nikki’s family and friends at the Lake House on Saturday, June 23, from 12:30 to 3:00 PM.

In lieu of flowers we ask that you make a donation in honor of Nikki to Mitchell Weekend Snack Pack program online at www.mitchellsnackpack.org or by mail to 1200 W University Ave, Mitchell, SD (605-995-2838).  


Visitation(s)

Date
Saturday, June 23, 2018
Time
12:30 PM - 3:00 PM
Location
Open house setting.
Please come between the hours of 12:30 and 3:00 PM.

The Lake House
2700 N Main St
Mitchell, SD 57301

Service

None Scheduled


Posted by Deb Cundy on June 23, 2018
Nikki will really be missed! We worked together in different projects and I I really enjoyed working with her!! As also one of her patients, she was a great physician.,
Posted by John and LuAnn Clarke on June 23, 2018
Jim and Family sorry for your loss. Nikki was a wonderful women who will be greatly missed.
Posted by Dawn Hanson on June 22, 2018
My deepest sympathy to you and my heart goes out to you all, I will be keeping in my thoughts and prayers!
Posted by Neil Peters on June 22, 2018
Jim and family. I was very sorry to hear about your loss. Deepest sympathy to all of you. May God be with all of you in this time of loss. Neil
Posted by Patty Erler on June 21, 2018
She treated me so well when I needed her & her bedside manner was very comforting! She will be missed
Posted by Linda Spencer on June 21, 2018
She was such a kind caring person. She truly cared about her patients, I have sincerely missed having her since she left her practice. Heaven gained a beautiful lady. Prayers for her family and friends, as you journey forward.
Posted by Kelly and Michelle Sunde on June 19, 2018
Words can not express the sorrow we feel in hearing of Nikki’s passing... Our deepest condolences. Kelly and Michelle Sunde
Posted by Charlie & Wanda Kobes on June 19, 2018
You all are in our thoughts and prayers in this hard time . Nikki will be missed by everyone that was blessed to know her ! She always there for everyone .
Posted by Nancy Nelson on June 19, 2018
I cherish the memories of my time with Nikki as a friend and colleague as we worked together and shared the joys of parenthood and nursing. My condolences to Jim and family.
Posted by Tim & Karmen on June 18, 2018
Porter family...you are and will continue to be in our prayers....for peace and courage to move on. She was one special friend and words can not come close to say what an important part of life she was to me back in the day.....Kirby you too! I know she will be observing from above with her quiet assertive inspiration to you all! God's Peace to you all.
Posted by Ann Foster on June 18, 2018
Nikki was a very strong, passionate, and kind woman. I am sending prayers your way. Will never forget her.
Posted by Steve Molumby on June 18, 2018
Jim and family - our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Nikki was such a kind and caring person and health professional. She will truly be missed!!
Posted by JERRI & LANNY EDWARDS on June 18, 2018
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE YOU ALL OF YOU; SAYING NIKKI WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON, NURSE/NURSE PRACTIONER--IS NOT EVEN DOING HER JUSTICE--SHE WAS SO MUCH MORE THEN THAT--HER KNOWLEDGE AND CARING PERSONALITY WAS SO ABOVE AND BEYOND. BUT JUST REMEMBER SHE IS WATCHING OVER ALL OF YOU EACH AND EVERYDAY AND TAKING CARE OF YOU; YES THAT DOES NOT HELP THAT PAIN THAT U ARE GOING THRU NOW BUT TO KNOW SHE IS NOT IN PAIN ANYMORE HAS TO BE A HUGE RELIEF AS WELL; SHE TOUCHED SO MANY LIVES THROUGHOUT HER LIFETIME--YES SHE WAS TAKEN WAY TOO SOON--AND OBVIOUSLY GOD NEEDED ONE HECK OF A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL TO ASSIST HIM AND GUESS WHAT--HE GOT THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!! JIM AND FAMILY OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL--JUST CLING ON TO ALL THE MEMORIES AND HAPPINESS THAT YOU GOT TO SHARE WITH HER AS A WONDERFUL WIFE, MOM AND GRAMMA; NIKKI WAS THE BEST!!!!
Posted by Mark Gunderson on June 18, 2018
My heartful thoughts and condolences are with your family all. I do recalled very few times I met Nikki and she was very warm and friendly. May God rests her soul.
Posted by Shannon Ladd on June 18, 2018
Nikki was a great clinician and a wonderful person . I knew her as my provider and colleague. She helped me through many issues and I trusted her wholeheartedly. I am so sorry for your loss and I will always remember her kindness and ability to care .
Posted by Kathy Austerman on June 18, 2018
Nikki was a classic, the community has lost a grand lady. She touched so many lives, she will be greatly missed.
Posted by Vicky and Rory Cromwell on June 16, 2018
Jim and family our thoughts and prayers are with you! So very sorry for your loss!
Posted by Yvette Nemec on June 16, 2018
The world has lost a little more sparkle. Having Nikki take care of me was a huge inspiration to take up nursing, and her insight and gentle guidance have been, and will be missed beyond expression. Our love and prayers to her family and friends.
Posted by Susan Olson on June 16, 2018
I was shocked to hear the news. Nikki was a dear friend and colleage. She will be greatly missed. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by Jen Meyer on June 16, 2018
Jim and Drew I am so sorry for your loss. My the Good Lord wrap his arms around you during this difficult time.
Posted by Erin Fieseler on June 16, 2018
Nikki took me under her wing at first as her patient, then as a fellow nurse, and always as a strong shoulder when anyone needed it. Even as time passed, she would greet you as if she saw you yesterday. She was a great teacher to others. The world we know has lost a great person. She will be greatly missed! Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by Ron & Bonnie Sogn on June 16, 2018
Jim & family So sorry for your loss Scottsdale AZ
Posted by Joyce Jones on June 16, 2018
She was so professional at her job but always made you feel important as her patient. She was a very caring person and always had a smile. She will be missed by many patients and friends and especially her family!
Posted by Lisa Wipf on June 15, 2018
Nikki touched so many lives in her lifetime and loved by so many. Her memories will live on thru so many families.
Posted by Kevin Olsen on June 15, 2018
My thoughts and prayers go out to you Jim, as well as all of the Porter family. Jim, so sorry for your loss of the love of your life.
Posted by Lynette Konrad on June 15, 2018
I was so shocked to hear of Nikki’s passing. My absolute deepest sympathy’s to her family and friends. I have fond memories of her as a health care provider. Such a blessing to so many.
Posted by Marsha Gunderson on June 15, 2018
I didn't know Nikki well although we met through our mutual relatives, Greg and Christa I am shocked and saddened to hear this news and will hold your family in prayer. Especially Margie.
Posted by Dayna on June 15, 2018
I loved Nikki as my doctor ! What a great person. So sorry for your loss. xo
Posted by Barn and Bill Goldammer on June 15, 2018
Words cannot explain the sadness we feel for Nikki’s family.
She was a very loving wife, mother and grandmother.
You all have our deepest sympathy.
Posted by Mary Renshaw on June 15, 2018
Nikki was a special person! So kind and understanding! Prayers to your family! She is a guardian angel watching over you all now!
Posted by Norene Paulson on June 15, 2018
I don't remember what grade Nikki and I were in when we first met, but I know we were friends for over 55 years. So many memories--riding our bikes to Terrace Park swimming pool on hot summer afternoons, walking downtown to Woolworth's lunch counter for a Coke and French fries with lots of ketchup, and, of course, all those summers spent at the cabin on Lake Madison. Wonderful memories of a wonderful friend whom I will miss deeply. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by David Smith on June 15, 2018
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Jim and the entire Porter family !!
Posted by Carol Davis on June 15, 2018
My heartfelt sympathies to all of you Jim you are in my thoughts and prayers
Posted by Carol Rosenbrook on June 15, 2018
Jim and family, please accept my prayers and thoughts at this difficult time.
Posted by Liz Parce on June 15, 2018
I am so sorry to hear of Nikki’s passing. I was a patient of hers for many years until she retired. She was kind, caring, and compassionate. I so appreciated the extra time she took to explain things and to visit with me about my life and children. Please know that I will keep your family in my prayers.
Posted by Rich Mayer on June 15, 2018
My condolences Jim to you and your family.
Posted by Joyce Nedved on June 15, 2018
Nikki was a very special lady! After talking to her I always felt better. So very sorry for your loss. God Bless you all🙏🏻🙏🏻
Posted by Shirley Schimmel on June 14, 2018
I worked with Nikki at Methodist Hospital. I am so saddened to hear of her passing. Nikki was a very caring and friendly co worker and educator. My sympathy to Jim and Family.
Posted by Colleen Tegels DeJong on June 14, 2018
So sorry for your loss. Prayers
Posted by Ruth Olinger on June 14, 2018
I met this special lady when we first worked together at the Methodist Hospital. I then got the privilege to work with her again at Dakota Women’s Clinic. She taught me so much about a lot of things, but especially what a person should be like in this world. She was one of the most caring people I knew & many times I wished I could be more like her. The world has lost a wonderful person & I’ll miss this dear friend. You’ll always be in my memories. My deepest sympathy to Jim & the whole family..
Posted by Gary & Julie Kunkel on June 14, 2018
So very sorry for your loss of Nikki. She was such a very special person in so many ways. Sincere sympathy to all thé family.
Posted by Laurie Cooper on June 14, 2018
So sorry to hear of Nikki's passing. She touched so many people and will be missed by all. Condolences to to the family.
Posted by Cindy renken/yates on June 14, 2018
I am so sorry to hear about this wonderful lady! I worked with her many years ago at the Methodist hospital! She was the most caring and loving person and touched so so many lives! She was also my doctor. Loved her so very much! Prayers to the family. She will be missed!
Posted by Laura Fosness on June 14, 2018
She was an AMAZING person... I am So very sorry for your loss,, She touched so many lives, and helped so many people. She will be MISSED by so many. RIP sweet Nikki..
Posted by Vicky Bailey on June 14, 2018
So sorry for your loss. The Angels gained a beautiful addition. God bless all.
Posted by Diane Slaba on June 14, 2018
Jim and family, sympathy and prayers to all of you. I was a patient of Nikki's from the late 70's until she retired from healthcare. She was a kind and beautiful soul that will be missed by all who knew her. Heaven gained a true angel.
Posted by Steve Kracht on June 14, 2018
Jim and the rest of the family. So sorry for your lose. It was a privilege getting to know you both through the church and the volunteer work we did together there, especially "fixing up" and painting that NIkki and I did.
Posted by Rose Nesheim on June 14, 2018
Sorry for your loss. I first got to know Nikki as a nurse at Methodist hospital. She was always so kind. She will be missed by many.
Posted by Karen Heida on June 14, 2018
So sorry for your loss! What a True Blessing your mother was! She will be greatly missed!!
You are in my thoughts and Prayers
Posted by Karen Larson on June 13, 2018
I am so shocked and sorry for your loss. She was a great gal. I had a lot of good visits with her at the clinic and in general. My heart hurts with you. So so sorry.
Posted by Marlene Schafer on June 13, 2018
I got to know Nikki working with her at Dakota Women's Clinic. She cared deeply for each patient and was very easy to work for. Family was very important to her and her stories about her grandkids were so priceless. We can't even imagine the deep pain and emptiness you are all feeling but know she left a piece of herself in each of you. What a great asset she was to her family, friends, patients and community. They all meant a lot to her and she will be deeply missed.
Posted by Kim Mohr on June 13, 2018
Nikki was one of a kind. She was always willing to listen, and got me through some tough times. Always made patients feel cared for. So sorry for your loss. She will be missed !!
Posted by Barb Meier on June 13, 2018
Nikki was a very special, caring person, you all have my deepest sympathy , so very sorry for your loss, you are in my prayers
Posted by Kori Clarambeau on June 13, 2018
So Sorry to hear of your loss, Nikki was always a very up beat person! Prayers are with your family!
Posted by Steve & Linda Whitney on June 13, 2018
We are so sorry for your loss! Nikki was a very special person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Posted by Hans Moore on June 13, 2018
Nikki impacted so many lives both professionally and personally and always reflecting her sense of caring and compassion. She had a great sense of humor and will be missed by all that knew her. Heart felt prayers to Jim and her family.
Posted by Sue and Cal Strand on June 13, 2018
We will keep you in our thoughts nd prayers. Nikki was a very special lady who will be greatly missed.
Posted by Lori Herman on June 13, 2018
Dear Porter Family, words can not express the deep sorrow on the passing of Nikki. She was a wonderful woman and will be greatly missed by family, friends and acquaintance. Deepest sympathies to all the family. Prayers from the Herman Family.
Posted by Kari Wald-Gales on June 13, 2018
We are so very sorry to hear of the loss of Nikki!!! She was a mentor and a gem beyond words!! Thoughts and prayers for your family!! Kari Wald-Gales & Family
Posted by Janie Golder on June 13, 2018
So sorry for your loss! Nikki was a truly genuine wonderful gal!! She will be greatly missed by many!!! My sincere sympathy to all the family...thoughts, prayers and many hugs ❤️🙏🙏
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